Ladies only, how do I encourage my wife to wear lingerie?
blue boy аѕkеԁ:
I thіnk I mау hаνе a ‘thing’ fοr lingerie, more specificly mу wife іn lingerie. Thе problem іѕ hοwеνеr, ѕhе doesn’t Ɩіkе tο dress sexy thе majority οf thе time аnԁ I feel I аm bugging hеr tο wear something slinky јυѕt fοr mу kicks.
I thіnk I mау hаνе a ‘thing’ fοr lingerie, more specificly mу wife іn lingerie. Thе problem іѕ hοwеνеr, ѕhе doesn’t Ɩіkе tο dress sexy thе majority οf thе time аnԁ I feel I аm bugging hеr tο wear something slinky јυѕt fοr mу kicks.
Shе іѕ very attractive аnԁ hаѕ a lovely figure, I know ѕhе doesn’t always thinks ѕο. Those times whеn ѕhе іѕ sensitive I don’t bother hеr.
Hοw ԁο I tеƖƖ hеr thаt іt rocks mу world whеn ѕhе wears lingerie? Iѕ іt normal fοr mοѕt women tο nοt Ɩіkе lingerie?
Give her loads of compliments, do something romantic! Motivate her! Make her think she is special!
Give her lingerie as a gift. Something that you think she would like.
Tell her straight up whats on your mind. But don’t demand it. That would be a turn off and then she would never wear it then, lol.
Take her shopping and you guys can choose together.
You should just buy her some and tell her how sexy you think she looks in it. You buy it and put it somewhere for her to find with a little note saying you think she will look beautiful in it and will she please wear it for you.
BUY HER SOME…until she gets the picture!
Tell her how sexy she looks all the time, improve her self-esteem.
And take her to the store to try stuff on. Sometimes a lady just needs to be pushed in one direction and then she find the right way herself.
If she’s not one to go and buy the stuff herself, I suggest you taking the initiative and buy it for her. Bring it home, wrapped in a gorgeous gift bag, and surprise her with it. Tell her how beautiful she is and that you would love to take this off of her later.
Make sure you emphasize how interested you are in “her”, and not the lingerie. If you seem preoccupied with it, she’ll probably lose interest.
If you buy it yourself, I suggest going to someplace like Victoria’s Secret. They may be a bit pricey, but the salesclerks will be able to give you fantastic knowledgeable service and help you since it will be a gift. Better off to spend the extra money and get something nice that fits her, then something cheap off the rack at a department store.
aww you sweet guy! My husband is like that too. I didn’t know until he went and bought me some. He asked a woman that worked there that had my frame to get the size he needed and had it gift wrapped then brought it home as a just because surprise with a note that said ” You are absolutely the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen”. (he picked out two in case I didn’t like them one was see through red kind of trampy and the other was classy and white.. so that is two different styles that still would give her a choice)
And I love to surprise him while I’m in it.
Another thing you may buy her gift cards sometimes too for like Victoria’s secret or Frederick’s of Hollywood and just let her go pick out something nice in her own taste.
i say your woman is a lucky girl to have you want her to be sexy.even more so you want her to do it for you.
never quit telling her how desirable you find her.
have you tried buying her the lingre to wear for you.
do you have kids? if so maybe you need to get a siter for the night and take her to a nice hotel wine and dine and she may just get into that lingre for you.
alot of the time a place away from the hustle and bustle will spark a desire to dress up and play.
Find out what she’s comfortable in, then compromise and buy her some, don’t start out with anything too crazykinky, you can work your way up to it.
Just say it! Tell her it rocks your world! Tell her how beautiful you think she is, and how much you LOVE to look at HER. Then buy her some REALLY nice lingerie (like Victoria’s Secret..don’t be cheap and go to Walmart
), give it to her in a lovely box and say, “I’d LOVE to see you in this.” Maybe buy a bottle of wine for some extra motivation. 
Buy her lingerie and tell her you will wear it if she doesn’t.
Well if she’s sensitive about the topic you could go with a subtle approach and just boost her confidence with some compliments then maybe a little later on go with a direct approach and straight up tell her how much you love her in sexy lingerie. Since she is your wife you know how she’d react better than we do, but since she is your wife you should be comfortable telling her she’s sexy and that you would love to see her in some lace, and hopefully she shouldn’t react in an unfavorable manner to that. Not many women would react unfavorably to hearing their man say they’re sexy. But since I don’t know you or your wife I can’t say much more.
Best of luck – Corbyn
Some women might think they don’t look good in lingerie, perhaps this is the case for her. To encourage her to wear it, buy some for her and perhaps buy yourself something that matches. That way she isn’t the only one who is expected to “dress up.” Whatever you do, don’t constantly bug her about it, however, because that will only discourage her!
Buy her some lingerie that you like, take her out on the town and be really sweet to her. When you get home ask her to put it on. Also: remember to tell her how beautiful you think she is. Come up to her when she is doing dishes in sweat pants in the middle of the day, tell her you love her and you think she is gorgeous, no matter what she wears. Maybe she feels too much pressure to be sexy when she puts the lingerie on, so if you tell her she’s sexy at other times there won’t be so much pressure.
Another thing you could do is buy yourself some sexy boxers or whatever kind of man underwear you like (or ask her to buy some for you that she likes.) Put them on and hide under the covers, and check out her reaction when she comes to bed.
Now that you both have sexy lingerie, Get some chocolate covered strawberries and champagne and both of you get dressed in your new sexy-wear, feed each other and have a toast, then lay in bed and cuddle……just take it from there.
And, in conclusion, just tell her how much it turns you on. Re-iterate that SHE turns you on, the lingerie just makes it more fun for you. Also, ask her if there’s anything she’d like you to do in bed, and do it. That might work. Hope this helps…..
First of all DONT buy it for her….guys always buy us something uncomfortable and in the wrong size. Talk to her and tell her that you want to take her lingerie shopping …you could even have a Victorias Secret or Fredricks of Hollywood gift certificate in hand when you bring up the conversation. You two picking it out together increase the chances of her actually wearing it for you. Some of that stuff looks great but isn’t very comfy so maybe she could find something that is both and that she feels she looks great in. Also make sure you give her loads of compliments. Tell her how beautiful she looks and don’t forget to do the dishes for her the night you want her to wear the lingerie. If she is exhausted she will not be in the mood! Trust me!
You’ve gotten some really good advice here. I think some women shy away from ‘sexy’ lingerie, as they think their bodies are flawed in some way ( “too fat” – “not busty enough” etc. & blahblahblah
You can encourage her by making her feel like the sexiest woman in the world – in or out of lingerie. Play a game – you’re a bachelor in Fredericks of Hollywood looking for a gift, and she’s a sales girl who’s trying stuff on for you. . . and she just makes ya’ loooooose control !!
:):)
Take her lingerie shopping.